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Gender-Affirming Fit and Care Basics

Gender-affirming products can bring comfort and joy when they fit well and are cared for properly. This beginner-friendly guide covers the basics of fit, comfort and care. For deeper detail, see our binder, gaff and packer article.

Prioritize Comfort and Safety

Choose breathable fabrics, avoid anything that restricts breathing or circulation, and give your body regular breaks.

Get the Right Size

Measure with a soft tape and use the brand size chart. Sizing differs between brands. If you are between sizes, choose the larger size.

Build a Small Starter Kit

  • One or two binders to rotate.
  • A comfortable gaff if you want one.
  • A soft packer for daily wear.

Wash and Store Properly

Hand wash in cool water, air dry flat and avoid heat. Clean silicone with mild soap and warm water.

Read the Full Guide

See our detailed binder, gaff and packer fit and care guide for safety limits and wear time.

This guide is for adults 18+ and is for general education only. It is not medical or mental health advice. If you have pain, a health concern or distress, please talk with a qualified professional.

Frequently Asked Questions

How do I know my binder fits?

It should compress comfortably without pain, and you should be able to breathe deeply.

Can I wear gear all day?

Limit wear time and take breaks. Follow the maker advice and listen to your body.

How often should I replace gear?

When fabric stretches or loses compression.

Where can I find supportive health care?

Look for LGBTQ+ friendly providers and local community organizations.

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